How does positive thinking come about?

 How does positive thinking come about?

The husband is in the room.

Children are playing in front. A woman is asking questions at home

That the kitchen smells of burning milk.

The woman runs to the kitchen.

At that moment, a bell rang at the main gate.

Mian goes out to the main gate and

They stumble upon the bucket in front of them.

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Two reactions are possible.

Positive feedback:

The woman comes quickly and asks:

You didn't get hurt, I forgot to remove the bucket in a hurry.

Mian said:

no!!!

It's not your fault, I should have seen it, I didn't notice it in a hurry.

Negative reaction:

Mian shouted:

This is no bucket place !!!!

You have no sense

Begum also shouts:

I also look at the kitchens here, ask questions, take care of the children and so on.

And the quarrel begins.

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Children are watching in both places.

In one place they will smile, in another they will be terrified.

At one point they learned to admit the mistake so that it would not be repeated.

Elsewhere, the children learned that if they make a mistake, they will be punished.

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Such small and big events happen daily in our homes and in our daily lives.

Now it is up to us to handle them in a positive way or in a negative way.

Our positive attitude provides a pleasant atmosphere and peace.

At the same time, our negative attitude leads to strife, destruction of the environment and disturbing the peace and tranquility of our lives.

We make our environment pleasant or unpleasant with our thinking and behavior.

"Admitting one's mistake or forgiving the mistake of others" is both a positive attitude and a believer's attribute.

As Allah (swt) says while describing the attributes of His pious servants