* In relation to spouses
The relationship between husband and wife is such that they will stay together for as long as it is accepted. After the acceptance and acceptance, the words of amusement are exchanged between the two of them. Their Hereafter will also be glorious. Then, insha'Allah, both of them will have to live immortal life in the palaces of Paradise with them. The queen will be the wife of this world.
When this concept is kept in mind, it will be easier to bear the small slips and shortcomings that occur between the two in married life, so his mind is in the pursuit of the luxurious infinite life of heaven, the world's greatest suffering. It will feel mediocre ... !!
If the husband is abusive to his wife, if there is injustice, if he annoys his wife with small things, then he should be treated with full patience, bearing on the ignorance of his husband, when his anger cools down, then the past. Forgetting the mistakes of the husband should be treated as if there was no bitterness between the two before .... If the husband commits an illegal act, such as abusing his wife, in front of everyone. If he is humiliated, even on such an occasion, the wife should work with full patience, remind the husband of the words of Allah and the Messenger of Allah in the normal mood of the husband, the harsh promises made by Allah for abusing the wife. He should be reminded as a reminder, to be told about the grave, to be told about the infinite life of heaven and its luxuries. Similarly, if the wife's attitude towards her husband is unfair, ignorant, she will be humiliated by telling her husband's mistakes, shortcomings on her face, not mentioning her other good deeds. Even then, the husband has to wait patiently for the time when the wife will be in a normal mood, then listen to the good news narrated by Allah and His Messenger, the rights of the husband, the strict promises on the disobedience of the husband. Be done
The first reason for the deterioration of marital life is that the third person interferes in the internal affairs of the spouses, whether the third person is the husband's brother, sister or relative, as well as the wife's brother, sister, relative. It is all illegal to create misunderstandings about marital relations. That is why the wife is not allowed to go to her husband and tell her parents about anything that has happened in her husband's house which has caused animosity and enmity between the two families.
When couples understand their rights within the realm of Sharia, it is difficult to create discord.
And when there is a recurrence of small things over the course of days, then it becomes impossible for the relationship to move forward and if you work patiently on this occasion, then this bitterness moves forward and turns into peace.
Meaning of Hadith: If a wife abuses her husband and oppresses him, then the maiden in Paradise is angry with the worldly wife and says, "Treat your husband well and he will stay with me in Paradise."
Meaning of Hadith: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) in his last days, in particular, strongly emphasized the importance of treating one's wives well and fearing Allaah in relation to them. ۔ ۔ "O Kama Qal al-Nabi al-Rahma"
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